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Posts Tagged ‘Love’

Are you an Optimist?

Monday, January 13th, 2014

Are you an Optimist?In a brand New Year that we have stepped in to, what is the most important thing that most of you are focusing on? Most of you would have already fixed your New Year resolutions and working towards fulfilling it. And, by now some of you would have even forgotten their resolutions also. Is it that difficult to live up to your words? What is it that is makes you back off from your words! I think, maintain a positive attitude.

All of us experience various kinds of thoughts in our heads – positive and negative. Positive thoughts generate a positive reality. On the other hand, negative thinking leads to negative outcomes. Both these thinking modes are in a constant tug of war in our minds. Positive thinkers tend to deal with life confidently, looking on the brighter side of things – unlike negative thinkers who tend to look at things non-constructively. It is obvious that most of us prefer to keep the positive element plugged to our minds, keeping negativity away. But, it is really difficult to do so! On a daily basis, thousands of negative thoughts at least for a second do run in our minds. And, to escape from such situations, what need to train our minds to focus on good things rather than the bad ones. At times, we do not realize on certain things unless we have lost it. So, instead of waiting for things to disappear, why not enjoy it in the moment. Therefore to train your minds, so that you focus on the brighter side of things you need to cultivate a positive aspect towards life. The below mentioned are a few tips of developing a positive mindset:

  • The first and foremost is love yourself: No matter what you experience in your life. Never hate yourself. If you do not respect yourself – others will not. Love yourself! I know we tend to pull out fault in ourselves, but do not over do it. Instead learn to improve yourselves by learning, cultivate new friendships, appreciate good work and pursue worthwhile causes. Praise yourselves as much as you praise others. When you start feeling confident about yourself, automatically positive thoughts will flow in.
  • Be Realistic: Make sure you aim for things that are possible. Hoping for unattainable things is a waste of time and energy. It will only bring disappointment. After fixing a goal, ensure that you work towards it as well. Miracles do not happen. Like if you wish to lose weight, ensure that you take appropriate measures to achieve it as well. You cannot get slim overnight. Likewise, for other things as well.
  • Know yourself: There is no person in the world who can tell you who you really are. Realize your passions, like, wants and principles. Ensure to fix up some time every week for self reflection in solitude. Only, if you know yourself too well, can you reach out to your goals physically, emotionally and mentally.
  • Balance your Desires: The world we live in is a place of opposites. Like there are rich and poor people, love and hate, rich and dark, male and female. Well, that is how life is. Everything cannot be perfect with everyone. So, we need to balance out or desires. You might find people around you are richer, happier or living a better life that you. But, you should not aim to have what they have, instead wish for what you can have.

-       To be continued!

Because you’re worth it … !

Wednesday, August 21st, 2013

loveThe foremost and most important thing in life is to love oneself. No matter if life is throwing lemons at you, don’t forget to take time for yourself and know that you are worth everything in this world. Know that you are important and you shall come out of it, whatever the situation be. Nothing, absolutely nothing can stop you if you believe in yourself.

Here are some general problems and their solutions for you:

Problem: You don’t like how you are

Solution: The beauty of lies in the fact that each one of us is different. It would have been utterly boring if all of us looked and thought alike. If you have a problem with yourself, kill it, face it and come out of it – don’t ever run from it. If it’s about physical appearance, make it your strength, make your uniqueness stand out.

Problem: She looks so much better

Solution: She might be pretty but then there are so many others who are pretty as well but none of them can be you. Accept your shortcomings and hone your strengths. Make your charisma all empowering.

Problem: Nothing is going right.

Solution: This is one of the most common problems with almost everyone because all of us think we are the most troubled people on earth.  Life is a journey and will always have some highs and lows. It’s the lows, which give us strength enough and realise what good is. Enjoy the journey.

Problem: He doesn’t love me as much as I love him

Solution: Always remember, “Love brings you face to face with yourself. It’s impossible to love others if you don’t love yourself.” You have to love yourself and he will be all into you.

It’s Valentines’ Day Again: Learn how to make the Day Memorable

Wednesday, February 13th, 2013

It’s Valentines’ Day Again Learn how to make the Day MemorableJust another day to go and it is one of the most romantic days of the year. Well, on a personal note, I just cannot wait for the clock to strike 12 and explore the surprises stacked by my beloved. Just like me, I’m quite sure most of you would be waiting for this special day. On the other hand, men would be cracking their brains and thinking of ways to make it the best day for their loved one and do not give even the slightest disappointment to them. The best advice to make it a nice day is not forgetting this day.

It is not necessary that you need to do something expensive and grand to please someone. The importance of this occasion is just letting the special person in your life know how important they are. And, that can be emphasized by even writing a note to that person.

Here are a few good ideas that can help you fix up a perfect day:

  • Surprise her at 12 on 14th February or maybe you can do it the next day morning by filling in lots of balloons in her room.
  • Let her take a break from the daily work stuff that could be cleaning, washing, preparing breakfast etc. Just let her live the day she wants.
  • If you have been together from quite some time then why not get back to the same place where you met the first time so that you can revive some old memories. Something like, how both of you had your first cup of coffee together. And, how each one was thinking hard as who would talk first.
  • Surprise her every hour or in two hours with something new. That may be like you can keep a small gift at various places and allow her to discover it. You can keep simple and cute stuff.
  • Things like lovely flowers, cards, perfumes, soft toys, jewellery, chocolates and a lot more are a great idea. The gifts you got to decide based on her preferences. Also, attach a note with every gift!
  • If she is at work, surprise her by sending to her office a bouquet of flowers or something special along with it. You can add a note to it, stating the venue for evening.
  • If she is the one of a kind of traveler, then you can go out for a long drive or maybe plan out a small trip for the day like a visit to the countryside.
  • How about letting her relax the whole day by taking her to a spa salon. Or you might make an arrangement by having it done at house itself.  This will allow her to leave behind all stresses and would be so much relaxing and rejuvenating.
  • And, of course not to forget the romantic date. You can fix up at any place that matches both your preferences. It can be a place that sets the perfect romantic ambience. You can actually plan out the way she likes it. That would be if she likes crowded places or serene and calm places, or may be at the beach side. End up taking a stroll in the park, enjoying the light breeze.
  • Do not forget to decorate her bed with rose petals and keep a chilled bottle of champagne at the bedside.

Well, these are a good load of ideas that can help you to make Valentine’s Day one of the most extraordinary days for someone special. If you got some more ideas then please let me know! Have a great Valentine’s Day ahead!

By- Angelica Campbell