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Posts Tagged ‘Relationship’

60 Plus Dating is Mature and Meaningful

Monday, March 25th, 2013

60 Plus Dating is Mature and Meaningful Taking a decision to date someone can be a little daunting at times, be at any age you belong to. One thing to specifically say is that dating is not limited just for the youngsters. Everyone wants to be in a relationship. It could be one of the most beautiful gifts that one can actually get the opportunity to date someone. However, the idea of dating or being intimate with someone can be frightening at times. Moreover, the option for dating is not available just for youngsters, the option is open to people for all ages. Even people above the age of 60 also get involved in dating. Sixty plus dating is very different as one is more aware about what they want or require. One is more tolerant with their choices of a partner.

Maturity helps you in taking the decision as who you choose and how you spend time with them. The age of 60 is not a cut off age for dating and therefore should be embraced with more of gusto than before. After the age of 60, financial security is something that has already been achieved and even your mind is developed with the same sense to understand things and converse appropriately. During teens and early twenties the dating circuit revolved more around partying and a bit of frivolous nature. After the age of sixty, a person’s outlook on dating changes. Intimacy might not exist but you may be comfortable with the person’s abilities.

There are a lot many age related dating websites available on the web that can help likeminded people connect with each other and in turn build relationships. It does not matter whether you have been single for a long time or not, such sites help the 60 and over singletons to connect. Most age related websites ensure worthwhile and honest connections that in turn help in increasing the chances of meeting the perfect someone. 60 plus dating is something like similar people meet and are often in a similar situation. At this age, people sometime worry about their children or may be about a marriage break up or probably have lost their loved one already and need to overcome the depression. These are some of the situations that most of the time people above 60 are into. At this age, they have already experienced a lot about life and relationships. And, it all means that they are quite open to difficult situations. Dating people of the same age has a lot of advantages and this is one of them. Being open minded when dating someone is something that we struggle throughout the years and by the time we reach the age of sixty, we have build a bold outlook about life. The manner we love and date people are now much mature and meaningful. Already, time ahs got wasted dating with unsuitable people or being alone, so it is time to get back dating and getting along with people worth us. Dating is no longer just for the youngsters, so go on enjoy life till your last breath. Look out for the special person in your life.

By – Angelica Campbell

Do your check your Partner’s Mobile Phone Often?

Saturday, March 16th, 2013

Do your check your Partner’s Mobile Phone OftenDo you consider yourself the perfect partner to your mate? Well, there are lots of ways, you can prove the same. Trust is considered to be one of the most important aspects of a relationship. So, here is something to check out, how much trust and faith you have in your partner. Are the one, who is quite often tempted to snap your partner’s mobile to check out stuff that probably you feel you are unaware about? Well, that is a clear indication that you do not have complete trust on your partner. A situation like this generally arises when there is something really wrong going on in your relationship and that needs to be talked about, rather than you stealthily snapping a look into your partner’s mobile phone. Checking out the phone is majestically wrong and certainly should be stopped. There are reasons to state why you should avoid peeping into your partner’s mobile phone.

Firstly, it’s a breach of trust: Instead of taking a sneak peek into your partner’s mobile why not clear the doubts by making a straight forward move and speaking out in regards to all the suspicions raised in your mind. Talking is the best way to settle any issue. No issue can be resolved without confronting it.

A small doubt will lead to suspicions: Also, if there is any issue and may be you are a person who does not like the idea of checking out your partner’s mobile but also at the same time you do not want to talk about it, is also not a good option. This will affect you from inside and your day to day activities. The negative feelings will screw up your thought process and the same can prove detrimental to your relationship.

In any situation, that makes you feel that you need to keep an eye on him, well then there is something seriously wrong in your relationship. And, if you do not deal with it immediately then things might worsen up. However, this does not mean that you are supposed to believe things blindly, whatever is being told to you. Do not give room to the slightest doubt in your mind. Clear it out! Speak it out, or if required give an end to things, but do not carry on things unnecessary ahead. Decision taking is more important than just simply beating around the bush.

Next time, if such a situation arises, you should be prepared to deal it. Actions are always louder than words. However, here words are louder than actions!

By – Angelica Campbell

Friendship is the Secret to a Romantic Relationship

Wednesday, January 30th, 2013

Friendship is the Secret to a Romantic RelationshipHere is a piece of interesting news for all. A new study states that a long lasting friendship is a secret to a romantic relationship. So, if you have been waiting to build a good bonding with your partner and have tried various options and things have not turned out to be successful. Well, here is a fantastic way to ignite your relationship in a simple and healthy way. Recent research states that valuing your friendship with your partner helps to strengthen your relationship by creating more commitment and bonding between the two.

In a relationship, if people try to emphasize more on satisfying one’s personal needs or desires then the relationship is less likely to succeed or develop a good bonding. To enhance the quality of your romantic relationship, it is very important to value the friendship aspect of your friendship. As per the lead author of this study, Laura VanderDrift of Purdue University Indiana has said that- “Romantic relationships are, at their core, friendships.” Giving more importance to the friendship component in a relationship is relative to any other components (like sex) to promote a positive relationship.

According to researchers, friendship is a characteristic of love and hence should be strengthened in any relationship. The team to report these findings had conducted two experiments. One was on 190 students who were indulged in a relationship from the past 18 months. The students had to fill questionnaires that aimed to assess the amount of investment they had put in a relationship. (This also included the different aspects of their relationship and future plans)

On being contacted four months later for being questioned with more on their relationship, 27% of the couples were not together. And, the ones who had scored highly were the ones who had been more particular about the friendship aspect of their relationship and even seemed to be content with their romantic commitment. Over the four months of their study, they saw the increase in a few of things like: partners who had put in more efforts in building a strong friendship were less likely to break up.

The next experiment studied about the relationships of 184 students who had been dating for 16 months on average. These couples were asked to rate the different aspects of relationship like companionship, self-improvement, sex, security and new experiences. The people rating companionship proved to score higher in their romantic and sexual fulfillment. And, the ones who targeted more on their personal needs could not score higher in their level of commitment in realty too. Therefore, if you are planning for a happy and a long lasting relationship with your partner- remember Friendship first.

By- Angelica Campbell

Going through an Abusive Relationship: End it soon

Monday, December 31st, 2012

Going through an Abusive Relationship End it soonStay all alone is certainly a bad idea! No one would like the idea of living their life all alone, however at the same time, no of us deserve to spend an entire life in an abusive relationship. We all have been gifted with beautiful lives and certainly should not be wasted with someone who does not understand the worth of another human being. If you are staying with someone who is making your life miserable and does not value your presence in his or her life then by every means you need to step out and live your life the way you want. Stepping out from a relationship is not that easy as easily told, one needs to know what to do and how to do! Therefore, it is important for one to know certain the safest ways of ending a relationship.

The first step is to identify the kind of abuse you are going through and against what you need to stand up. Abuse can be various types like:

  • Emotional
  • Psychological
  • Verbal
  • Physical
  • Sexual
  • Combination of any of the above

It is very important for the person to understand the kind of abuse they are undergoing as it makes it easy to strategize you the ways to exit. Like for example, if you are undergoing a physical abuse in a relationship then you need to make a complete break off where in no longer you will have to stay with that person. You cannot be hurt physically unless you are touched, therefore the best way is to break up and leave. Similarly, in case of verbal abuse stop all forms of verbal communication. And, if they wish to talk to you, then it should be done in the presence of others. In case if the person is hurting you emotionally or psychologically, then as soon as a person starts doing so, then what they will get to hear should be the dial tone.

Next is, once you have taken the decision of leaving…you need to stick it by all means. For there is a chance, that as soon as your partner gets to know about your decision, he might try to compress the situation by:

  • Talking very sweetly and promising you to make things better by putting forth their best behaviour and end of all troubles.
  • Also, he might threaten you to worsen things and abuse you more.

 Thirdly, you got to be very strong in such situations. Seek the help of someone, in case the situation is getting too torturous and if you are not able to break out from the relationship. Law is always there to help you out from such traumatic situations. You will have to be strong enough to raise your voice against wrong as you have every right to live your life the way you want it. Also, your inner strength will give you the hope to begin your life on a positive note.

Finally, find strength in others. When you break off, the abuser might try to lure you. They will try to play with your emotions to win you back. Suddenly might start doing things that you like, however you need to be very strict with your decision. Surround yourself with people like friends and family who can decide the best for you and also support you in your decision. Interrogate yourself well, in regards to your needs and what you want from life and take a decision. Consider the fact, that whether you can back up the emptiness of the person or is it unbearable for to stay all by yourself. The solution does not come from what your friends and family tells you…it is in you- your thoughts make you the person you are. However, one thing you need to remember is that any relationship is healthy only when there is mutual respect existing between the partners. So, go on and love life as it should be lived.

By- Angelica Campbell